PATH AWAY FROM DESTRUCTION

With passage of time I have came to a conclusion that even though I have been indulged into so many things but there are so many opportunities that I have missed, I might have been leading a different life if I would have gone in different direction, it could all be different. .

There are numerous opportunities in the world that people could have availed but in that moment,  they couldn’t decide because at the end we live in an era of envy and competition where it’s considered that helping someone else might take away your chance at better future. People lag because they cannot seem to find the opportunities and when they stumble upon few of them then they don’t have proper guidance and eventually when they do make up their mind it’s get too late to avail the opportunity.

One of my friends once said: “Zaroorat sy ziada aur Qismat se pehly kisi ko kuch nhi milta”          but I believe otherwise, there is time for everything and if you strike while the iron is hot then only you can wonder.

I came to realization of all this when my friend reached out to me and asked for guidance regarding ISSB, it has always been my passion to join armed forces, so without hesitation I agreed to help him out. I managed to meet him 3 to 4 time in which I told him all the tricks and tips of clearing ISSB, even though ISSB doesn’t have a stagnant pattern but it sure does follow few basic analysis methods and after a month I receive his call, his voice was trembling with excitement, with that stammer in his voice he informed me that he got in and thanked me for helping him out.

On that day I concluded that everybody needs a guide, who boost you towards the direction that one always wanted to go for. It’s not possible for anyone to underline more on this more than me on account of my own experience that appears to be ordinary decision in our life yet to be straightforward that basic and ordinary decision changed numerous life’s for example choosing engineering field at college level. I realized that I committed a gigantic error just by following the career path of my father and now in university life I’m realizing it, that I’m not quite the same as my father I’m having diverse passion, skills and side interests than my father. Career counselling plays a vital role in choosing one’s career.

It’s never too late to be what you might have been

                              George Eliot
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